I really like to have a nice meal at a restaurant. It's the whole dining out experience that I like. It can, however, be slightly unpleasant for a plus size woman. I really hate when the waiter looks at me with a strange look when I ask for more butter. I never butter my foods at home, however, I always find it a treat to give myself a little something extra when I eat out. I feel like I have saved it up! Actually, I love the butter they serve at the Waffle House downtown because it is whipped. I also love the butter at Chez Pierre since it is not salty. Yes, I know it's fattening, horrible for the heart, etc., but I never ask for dessert.